Being on your own as an adult has tons of perks, but one thing that takes time is learning how to live within your budget and become completely financially independent. Getting there doesn’t happen in a snap. Here are the steps to follow!
1. Do the opposite.
Society has so many failures, so you simply have to do the opposite of what everyone else does. I call this the “opposite equivalent.” This means that you must act differently than 98 percent of people in the world. Instead of conforming to the behaviors of most people, think of acting on the opposite end of the continuum.
For instance, if you have a “drunkcle” (drunk uncle) who is drinking 12 beers every Friday night, you should read 12 chapters in a book every Friday night. Could you imagine what would happen if you created habits that are opposite of a failure? Don’t go where failures go or do what failures do. Develop a new way of living by doing the opposite of what failures do.
Stop conforming, start performing!
2. Use your emotions.
Your emotions control what you do. They tell you how to act. For example, everyone in the world has the emotion of “anger.” However, what do you do with this anger? If you suppress it, it will harm you, causing you to do things you don’t want to do. Moreover, if you express it righteously (exhibiting love), you can accomplish amazing goals (Anger+Love=Passion).
But passion isn’t enough. You must mix it with action to get results (Passion+Action=Results). Let’s tie it all together: If you’ve been in debt, you may get so frustrated (anger) at the situation that you decide to do something good about it (love). You then decide to start your business (passion) and start making deals (action). Eventually, you’ll get the money and joy (results).
3. Get acquainted with wealth.
If you’re not living in prosperity, you’re living in poverty. However, this can change when you get acquainted with rich ideas. Here are several things you can do to get acquainted with wealth: subscribe to luxury magazines, visit upscale malls, test drive new luxury cars, Google the biggest mansions, etc. In short, learn to think how rich people think.
Financial independence will only come when you know what you’re looking for. You must decide exactly what kind of lifestyle that you want to live. You can’t have a million-dollar bank account with fifty cent mentality. In order to obtain great wealth, you’ll need to surround yourself with rich people and opulent objects.
When the mind is ready, the money will come.
4. Invest in yourself.
The major difference between amateurs and professionals is that amateurs don’t invest in themselves, while professionals do. If you want a great increase in salary, you must buy the books, listen to the audio programs and go to the seminars. You need to hire a coach, even if you’re doing a couple calls with them.
Many people write me asking for free financial advice. Only poor people give free financial advice. Besides my articles, that’s all the free advice I can give. When it comes to obtaining financial independence, only serious students will invest in themselves and do whatever it takes to reach the highest level. When you invest in yourself, everyone will invest in you.
5. Get obsessed.
The first 100 speeches I ever gave was called ‘How to ACT Like a Leader’ ACT was an acronym that stood for: Audacious, Contagious, Tenacious. I was obsessed with it and thousands of people loved it too. When you ACT like the person you want to be, you become unstoppable!
When you’re audacious in your actions, you gain confidence in who you are and what you do. Soon enough, people feel that confidence because you have a contagious spirit. As you gain momentum, you go the extra mile, step your game up, and give it all you’ve got because you are tenacious. Those who are Audacious, Contagious, and Tenacious will become financially independent.
Success is about becoming who you really are.
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